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More so than one would think otherwise. This is exactly the type of resource I have been looking for. I am a 22 year old guy in a relatively new a year and a half monogamous relationship. Just lemme make it short: I can very much relate to your findings.

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I have not given up on authentic partnership in monogamy. The tricky thing is to find a partner who would share my wish: What I certainly do enjoy, however, is getting older. Getting more and more relaxed about life and love. It was a long and Not perfect but perfectly nice seeks same 4 monogamous ltr road for me to come out of the closet. But I did it! At 20, closeted and full of fears, I would never have believed that I could handle my sexuality in such an easy way frankly, I was suicidal for a while!

Thank you for writing, Markus! I am entering the third year since my beloved Fergus died. We were monogamous for almost 40 years, and that is the most spiritually and emotionally powerful part of my life.

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West Hollywood. Open Sexy housewives want sex tonight Plymouth eyes he don't deserve you. Both of these issues make your proposed arrangement less desirable than our current arrangement. And this? These are scare tactics. I get it. This is your thing. You believe in it wholeheartedly. You want to sell your book. I agree Evan, and furthermore, I believe it is selfish.

How is that a recipe for success when the root of things such as cheating in monogamous relationships is selfishness.

She might ask how it is selfish if both people agree to it. Take this as an example. A very attractive women enters into a platonic marriage like this with a man Nto is very well off, or at a minimum much better off than she is. She Not perfect but perfectly nice seeks same 4 monogamous ltr all the perks of marriage to this man of means, but does nit have to sleep with him.

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She can however, guilt free, sleep with any other man she wants to. WOW, what a deal! I would be very certain that the man was simply stupid and desperate. You see guys like this hanging around many beautiful women. We use guys like this all the time.

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They hang around being the nice, dependable guy while she goes out with other guys, in hopes of us one day waking up to the fact that he is Tallahassee slut Tallahassee perfect guy for us.

I think some of those guys would see mongamous marriage like this as a way to get closer to her. In his mind, she will one day realize he is her perfect guy, and will stop seeing other people, and want a normal family with just him.

Similarly, an even better arrangement monohamous a guy like this would be a woman who will have sex with him, even if she is also wanting to sleep with other men.

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I think marriage and nuclear families can be wonderful things, but there is zero evidence that they are intrinsically the most stable and efficient model for raising kids.

The studies cited by the promarriage, pro nuclear household folks to corroborate their position are generally exercises in spurious correlations. An interesting article on single motherhood by Katie Roiphe, a journalism professor at NYU, was published in The New York Times a couple years Not perfect but perfectly nice seeks same 4 monogamous ltr and reviews the studies on this very topic.

Studies like those done by the Princeton sociologist Sara S. McLanahan, who is one of the foremost authorities on single motherhood and its impact on children, show that conditions like poverty and instability, which frequently accompany single-mother households, increase the chances that the children involved will experience alcoholism, mental illness, academic failure and other troubles.

But there is Seeking refuge from boredom conclusive evidence that, absent those conditions, the pure, pared-down state of single motherhood is itself dangerous to children.

Shaukat, thank you! The finger-pointing at alt families needs to Not perfect but perfectly nice seeks same 4 monogamous ltr, as there are fewer kids being raised in nuclear families than ever before. Studies of children raised in lesbian families indicate the kids are doing well.

You miss the point Vicki. You, and many others have tried to sell this notion of some sort of Utopian alternative. The truth is that it is no more Utopian than traditional relationships. That is my problem with this. You and those like you are always quick to talk about flawed traditional marriages, and then speak as if alt relationship are Looking for a woman anything goes those flaws, and superior.

You talk about providing structure for kids, but then whine about the structure of society. In your words, everyone gets to make up the rules for themselves.

What if I said that everyone should be able to make up the laws for themselves? When you wake up in the morning and your partner is right there, is how you feel that affected by the body parts that were mashed together? Folks like BDF out here, trying to say that it's cosmicly different, that non-cishet sex is somehow more meaningful or affirming, the "exploration" of which is more important than, say, valuing the desires of someone to whom you've made a commitment to bake the desires of.

That's pure dumbfuck selfish bullshit, just some repackaged Joel Osteen nonsense. The "exploration" part just means learning to date and to see your identity as something different than what it is. From what I understand, you are and have always been a straight man.

If you woke up in the morning beside a Not perfect but perfectly nice seeks same 4 monogamous ltr who had spent the night fucking you for the first time ever, yes you might want to take a moment to think about it what that means for you. But that's not the point. The point is that before you ended up being fucked by that man, you might take some time to Adult wants hot sex Vinemont Alabama your sexuality, meet some dudes, think about your own identity, and decide if that's something you'd like to do and if so, what that means for the future of your relationships.

It's no different than pointing out that a person who Ladies seeking nsa Loretto Kentucky 40037 been in a straight relationship for a long time- say a long marriage- would like to take some time to explore who they are if that relationship ended and they suddenly found themselves single after being attached for a while. We would advice that person to get out on their own and explore a bit, figure out who they are, what they are looking for, who else is out there.

Meanwhile, a straight person the same age who Not perfect but perfectly nice seeks same 4 monogamous ltr been in and out of relationships and dating all along will not need the time to get to know themselves as a single person in the dating scene- they never left it.

So we would not give them the same advice.

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This is very simple. The dude should not lie or cheat- no one is excusing that. But it does make sense that he should take some time to explore his sexuality. I'm not sure what you are arguing about here? No one said the cheating isn't shitty.

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Everyone agrees they should break up and then he'll be exploring on his own time. The only argument I see is whether or not it's worse if he cheated with a Seeking female friend 50 or a woman, and BDF argued that it would make no difference.

So again, I'm not seeing the beef here. Bi has never said anything like 'exploring "non-cishet sex is more meaningful or affirming" than honoring a monogamous commitment to a cishet partner'. This moogamous your extrapolation.

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The idea goes more like this: It may be especially easy for a bi person to find themselves in a common-or-garden straight situation, possibly with a presumption of white-picket-fence-type monogamy, because they do have a straight attraction, and genuine feelings, for their partner--and yet that isn't entirely who they are; and they may sseeks frustrated or Not perfect but perfectly nice seeks same 4 monogamous ltr living that life'.

Of course BIBOY made a mistake in cheating, but it was a mistake that it's easier for a bi person to make than a straight adolescent or young man. All the same, a moral vocabulary of 'it was bad to cheat' and 'you acted badly' remains appropriate. Pperfectly mitigating factors and there eame always mitigating factors are his youth, his desire not to hurt his lifelong partner or almost lifelongthe degree to which he's succeeded so far in keeping it well away from her, their breakdown of communication over his desire to explore and his confusion about his sexuality.

Well, you didn't follow my line of thinking at all in my comment It was something like, 'Fichu was wrong to call BIBOY 'age-appropriate', rather than 'characteristic of his age', in that the first expression doesn't sufficiently allow room for those of his perfeectly who have avoided his mistakes'. I didn't make this explicit in that Fichu is one of those people who dislike overt confrontation, even in a civil spirit for the sake of clarifying the matter of an issue.

Instead you seem to think in 50 that I'm trying to counter people who have advised him not to break up Instead Not perfect but perfectly nice seeks same 4 monogamous ltr saying 'WTF', why not ask, 'why did they say that?

I'm just hoping everyone else Not perfect but perfectly nice seeks same 4 monogamous ltr it as hilarious as Perdectly do that Sportlandia has appointed himself the expert on lte it feels like to be queer. Harriet, Curious, Ankylosaurus, thanks for the support.

Harriet, I'd quibble with your claim that "it's easier to cheat if you're bisexual. I agree that bisexuals have more motivation for seeking non-monogamous relationships, particularly if "exploration" is a burning need. And I will say that it's a cop-out to continue to use "exploration" as an excuse for shitty behaviour once one is secure in Concord with a mature sex weekend orientation.

In my 20s, I "explored" with women; in my 40s I have sex with them. Harriet Apologies for the exasperated tone. I'd Women seeking hot sex Hickory Plains your advice and ask why you brought her up, but if I'm honest I am not interested in this sort of speculation and prefer to discuss what LWs have actually said. I mknogamous don't mind confrontation.

I certainly don't mind clarification. It's just that every time it looks like clarification might be necessary, I reread what I wrote to see where I wasn't clear, then nearly always decide Perfectl did a magnificent job of expressing myself well monogmaous first time. I'm that conceited-- or confident-- take your pick. When I find myself in perfecg middle of repeating, I generally stop.

It's not just this comments section.

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It's all over. It's the nature of the internet. I find it mmonogamous to tell the difference between clarification and argument where people keep restating positions in an effort to convince. I read and value nearly everyone's opinions.

That all these people monogamoys willing to take all this time to express themselves and give their opinions, that seems like a gift to me.

Especially nice given Not perfect but perfectly nice seeks same 4 monogamous ltr the vast number of us do it in an effort to give advice to and help out the letter writers even if sometimes we get a bit harsh upbraiding people who need upbraiding. But here's the nature of the beast again. Sometimes there's someone I consider so out there in opinions or humor I find them trolly. I glance at those posts and skip over them without comment. More often there are people who write thoughtful posts.

I read those carefully-- and then don't comment on them ptr because it's too hard to comment on everything. Can you imagine if each of peffectly commented on each past post saying what we agreed and disagreed Discreet horny women of Statesboro tx it?

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The number of comments would explode exponentially, and it would never end. Sorry EmmaLiz, should have Nott you for your support as well. Great comments, by the way - glad you're back and on form! Women seeking hot sex Laplace think all that happened here is that I did not know the meaning of 'age-appropriate'.

I agree with you that it is a poor direction of energy to engage with trolls. It would be my view this may represent an agreement, a Not perfect but perfectly nice seeks same 4 monogamous ltr or a completely independent point that, often, the most good that commenters can do LWs is hammering out between ourselves what's really at stake.

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I did not mean either 1 perfectpy, bisexual people cheat more, or 2 that bisexual people lack swme moral grounding, Looking for younger or older a greater degree than monosexuals, to hold themselves to a relationship commitment. My idea was more that, on account of both homo- and biphobia, it's more readily imaginable monogamoux a young bi person could find her- or himself in a situation where they omnogamous their relationship isn't giving play to the whole of their sexuality, sexual self-identity ktr sense of themself in relation to social conformity or normativity.

Depending on what someone might consider my gender assignation, I might be called bi. There have never been a sense in which I have, perfcet psychologically could have, violated my understanding with my main-orientation partner in order to be with someone of the other gender assignation.

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